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Je profiel
Privacy controls
Choose who sees each profile field, hide your age or distance, go incognito, snooze your profile, and control online status and read receipts.
Laatst bijgewerkt: November 8, 2026
You decide how much you share on Kilig and who gets to see it. Most privacy controls live in Settings → Privacy (/app/settings/privacy). On mobile, tap the Profile tab, then the gear icon, then Privacy.
Choose who sees each profile field
Every optional profile field has its own audience setting:
| Audience | Who can see it |
|---|---|
| Everyone | Anyone who sees your profile in discovery |
| Matches only | Only people you've matched with |
| Only me | Nobody but you |
Sensitive fields, such as sexual orientation, religion, political views, and ethnicity, are set to Only me by default. They only become visible if you choose a different audience.
To change a field's audience:
- Go to Edit profile, or to Settings → Privacy → Profile fields.
- Tap the field you want to change.
- Choose Everyone, Matches only, or Only me.
- Tap Save.
Fields set to Only me are never shown to anyone. Your choices also affect how people can filter: someone can only filter by a field you've made visible to them.
Hide your age or distance (Kilig Plus and Premium)
- Go to Settings → Privacy.
- Turn on Hide my age or Hide my distance.
Your age and distance are still used for matching and filters behind the scenes, so you'll keep seeing and being seen by compatible people. They just won't appear on your profile.
Even without hiding your distance, we never show an exact location. Distances are rounded to whole kilometers and never shown as less than "2 km." See Location and distance.
Incognito mode (Kilig Plus and Premium)
With incognito mode on, only people you've liked can see your profile. You can browse discovery as usual, and you won't appear to anyone you haven't liked.
- Go to Settings → Privacy.
- Turn on Incognito mode.
Existing matches can still see your profile and message you. Boosts aren't available while incognito is on.
Snooze your profile
Need a break? Snoozing hides you from discovery without deleting anything. It's available on every plan.
- Go to Settings → Privacy → Snooze.
- Choose 1 day, 3 days, 7 days, or 30 days.
- Tap Snooze.
While you're snoozed, you won't appear in discovery and you won't see new profiles. You can still chat with your existing matches. Your profile comes back automatically when the snooze ends, or tap End snooze anytime to return early.
Hide your online status
By default, matches can see when you've been active recently. To turn this off:
- Go to Settings → Privacy.
- Turn off Show online status.
When it's off, nobody sees when you're online, and you won't see other people's online status either.
Read receipts
Kilig Plus and Premium members can see when their messages have been read. Anyone can choose not to send read receipts:
- Go to Settings → Privacy.
- Turn off Send read receipts.
When you turn read receipts off, people won't see when you've read their messages, and you won't see read receipts from others.
Blocked people and contacts
You can see and manage people you've blocked, or block specific phone numbers and email addresses so those people don't see you, in Settings → Privacy → Blocked people and Blocked contacts. See Block someone.
Usage analytics
In our iOS and Android apps, you can turn usage analytics on or off in Settings → Privacy → Usage analytics. On the web, use Cookie settings in the site footer. Learn more in our Cookie Policy.